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Barby Belle
Borchardt
May 9, 1953 — Jul 17, 2025
Barby Belle Bafaro Borchardt, 72, died peacefully on July 17, 2025, at Northwestern Medicine Kishwaukee Hospital.
Barby was born on May 9, 1953, in St. Louis, MO, to Thomas Bafaro Jr. and Louella (Ossenberg) Bafaro. Barby was a 1971 graduate of Incarnate Word Academy, Normandy, MO, and a 1975 graduate of Kansas Newman College, Wichita, KS, with a degree in elementary education. She taught primary grades over a 31-year career in four states, including the last 27 years at St. Mary's Catholic School in Sycamore, IL.
Barby was united in marriage to Robert James Borchardt on June 24, 1977, in Creve Coeur, MO. She is survived by her husband, Bob; their three children Robert William, Brian Thomas, and daughter Margaret Mary (Kevin Light); and Barby and Bob's grandson, Brian, "Babycakes" Daniel. Barby is also survived by her brothers, Joseph (Joanne) Bafaro of Timonium, MD, and Michael (Rachel) Bafaro of Creve Coeur, MO.
In her many years as an educator, it was clear to students and parents alike that Barby was not simply doing a job, she was following a calling. Her ability to connect with, champion, and celebrate her students brought her immense joy until her retirement in 2013.
Barby wished to extend her heartfelt thanks to all her former students and their parents for trusting her and giving her the gift of doing what she loved most.
Per her request, no visitation will take place. To honor her memory, we invite you to enjoy a baseball game with your loved ones, tend to your garden, or cozy up with a good book—especially one from your local library.
A scholarship fund will be established in the future to celebrate Barby's life and continue her dedication to education.
A private interment will be at Mount Carmel Cemetery, Sycamore, IL.
To sign the online guestbook or share a special memory, please visit www.ButalaFuneralHomes.com
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